Sunday, 27 July 2014

Oblivious?! Not Really.

To Like or not to Like?
To Love or not to Love?

Often we feel that this is something which we can control, that our mind's voice is stronger than our heart's calling. But the reality begs to differ. When the situation occurs, more than listening to the mind's voice, you tend to lose your mind's rationality.

The whole episode starts off just like your own sweet fairy tale. You meet your desired guy, both have short sweet eye contact, slowly conversations build up, things start looking good from your end. Texting, phone call, everything seems to favor you and your wishful story.
But suddenly things change, he starts acting strange, the lesser the contact you have, the more grows the impatience. You being to act weird and jealously sets in. You start to believe in that fact that it was indeed a fairy tale and not a reality, that you had lost your senses for a while, only to get it back on track in time.

But amidst all this, you fail to resist thinking about him. Your eyes stay glued to your phone, your ears couldn't have been any sharper than this (beep of text message) and all you do is dream about unrealistic moments.

Being friends indeed is a great gift, but what if you want more than that? What if you never wished for just the friendship? The time when you wish to cross the line of friendship and yet again restrict yourself, thinking you might make a complete fool out of yourself, is difficult. Your rational self tells you that this is - "so not going to work" and yet a small part of you truly wishes that it does work out the way you wish to.

To be strong enough, to let yourself realize that you are losing your mind, is hard. This time calls for some sensible thinking. Would you like to lose him forever by acting like a total nutcase? Or being around him as a friend is enough for you? Is being friends with him is better than creating an awkward distance ? These are questions you need to ask yourself and validate your point.

To all the hopeless souls out there, I hear you ! This is the dilemma of "love" , the ray of hope seems to be bleak and yet prominent all at once.
Dream for it, wish for it, but don't expect anything out of it and be happy with what you get.

P.S.- Dedicated to Roommate Dearest! :*

With love,

Sunday, 22 June 2014

Change in Life!

Its been a while since I last posted something. The reason is very much interlinked with the topic of this post.
So I got busy with "life" . Yes, you heard me! Life is what happened.

College acceptance , leaving my own city , landing up in a completely unknown place , saying good-bye to family members , embracing the new change , trying hard to make new friends , adapting to rather different way of living and the list will go on. This is just a glimpse of the change in life I am talking about.

Before leaving and even till now, many have told me that they wish I remain the same. That I be the very same person when I return . I cannot help but think differently. Same?! Why will I be the same? If I were to be the same person , then I shouldn't have left in the first place. I could have easily stayed back at home, lead a lazy life and could be the "same". I know what they were trying to mean is - as a person I shouldn't become bad or something. However, I wish to think of it in this way.
 I am not going to be bad or good, I am going to improve. I am going to mature as a person, I am going to learn new things everyday, I am going to become a better human being. 
Living alone calls for a lot of new changes and to survive and adapt in a new environment you need friends. Its only been a few days in this city and I am happy to say this, that I have managed to make a few friends. Its needless to say that I am blessed to be where I am today. Fortunately the class I am in, has really friendly individuals. I came here with the hope to learn and grow as a person, but being in a class filled with such people, I am excited to learn from them in this journey ahead.

Change in life can be hard, but we have to face it. The moment we start facing our fears, is when we start living. We need to see the brighter side of everything and motivate ourselves. We need to scarifice something now, in order to achieve something much greater in future.
Your life doesn't get better by chance, it gets better by change. 
                                                                                     - Jim Rohn

I hope that you all are doing really well in your lives.You might have faced this situation at some point of time in your life or you will face them in your near future. The only thing we all need to remember is
                                                   "Change is the only Constant "

With love

Wednesday, 14 May 2014

Reality Check!

Living in a world created by the author is fun and enjoyable. You come to believe whatever is depicted in the book, you start to imagine that these things can happen in real life.

Attachments by Rainbow Rowell is a book that easily qualifies as one of my favourite books. The reasons might be the sweet and funny friendship between the characters and also the love story that keeps playing all throughout the book.

This is not a Book Review, it is almost a Reality check that I seem to have had in the past few days. I have mentioned this book in particular, to show that not everything in this world is the same as is written in story books.

In the book, the female character has a strong crush on a guy , who is way too good looking and cute. He is someone who works at her office but they don't know each other. However , this girl seems to have spotted him and falls hard for this guy even though she has no idea who he is, what he is like.
This boy on the other hand (as known to readers) is an absolute gentleman and is the perfect guy that you could fall in love with.

The reality check comes here. I too had an encounter with a guy who is exceedingly good looking and way too handsome to be real! Unlike in the book, where the guy knows about the girl and the girl knows nothing about the guy. In my case it is the exact reverse. Certain turn of events revealed that this guy isn't anything of a dream guy. The face and the personality just does not match. Its absolutely different and almost hard to believe.
All I am trying to say is, even though in the book the girl falls for someone without knowing about him and the guy turns out to be a gem of a person, in reality that doesn't seem to be the way. In real life people cannot fall for anyone without knowing each and every minute details about the person.

Story books deport us to a world that is light hearted and care free. To imagine that events, similar to what is written in the books can happen in your life is foolish. Having said that, I must mention yet again that Attachments by Rainbow Rowell is an absolute fun read. I enjoyed every bit of the book and it has connected with me in ways I cannot explain.

Do give this book a try!

With Love

Saturday, 10 May 2014

Happy Mother's Day!!

You Taught me to Walk, 
You Taught me to Talk.
You Corrected my Wrong,
You Encouraged my Right.
You Held me Tight
When I was Hurt,
You Gave me The Courage
To Move Forward.
To the World Best Mother ~ Happy Mother's Day!!
 You  #HappyMothersDay

Monday, 5 May 2014

Bout of Books 10.0: READ-A-THON !!

With the whole BookTube community raving about read-a-thons every now and then, I thought it was time for me to experience it first hand. This will be my first ever attempt at reading alongside a whole bunch of other people. This is something I wanted to do for a while, it is almost like challenging myself to read as much as I possibly can in this 7 days time!! Surely, it will be a pretty intense week, and I cant wait for it to get started. Read-a-Thon begins on 12Th May!!!

The Bout of Books read-a-thon is organized by Amanda @ On a Book Bender and Kelly @ Reading the Paranormal. It is a week long read-a-thon that begins 12:01am Monday, May 12th and runs through Sunday, May 18th in whatever time zone you are in. Bout of Books is low-pressure, and the only reading competition is between you and your usual number of books read in a week. There are challenges, giveaways, and a grand prize, but all of these are completely optional. For all Bout of Books 10 information and updates, be sure to visit the Bout of Books blog. - From the Bout of Books team
Click here to sign up - Bout of Books 

Wednesday, 30 April 2014

Z for Zipping (It)!!

After a month full of anticipation and wait and expectation, finally the challenge draws towards the end, with today being the last day.

Being a first timer in this challenge, I did not have a preplanned list of topics written and pre-scheduled. So waking up every morning and brain storming for a topic was pretty crazy. The innumerous edits and scrapping of the whole material now seems fruitful. Now when I look back at those 25 days, I really feel proud of myself  for having kept my promises, for  having lived up to my commitments (drawing a string of thought from my last day’s post).

This challenge was a fun experiment in itself and it is truly surreal to know that there are so many people who read my blog post. It allowed me to connect with other bloggers, with whom I would have otherwise never connected. I must also mention that this challenge helped me in getting a flow in my writing. Previously I would feel lazy and post something rarely. But this challenge got me into writing daily, thereby making it almost a habit to post something or the other everyday. And must I mention, I did miss not posting on Sundays.

So, summing up these fun filled 26 days , I would now like to zip up the challenge and hope to hear from you guys.

With love

Monday, 28 April 2014

Y for Year!!

Mornings change into night, days change into week, weeks change into month and months change into a year. Time passes by and as we welcome a new year, we learn from our mistakes from previous year and try to make better decisions and choices.

Year after year we make promises to ourselves to do something or the other, we accomplish some while we fail to keep up with the rest. We, then make resolutions for the year ahead, and attempt at completing them. This is the process we carry on every year.

But somehow during the year, so many events take place that we often lose focus on what we planned on achieving. We forget our primary goal, we deviate from our track and end up doing something completely out of the “to-do” list. Well sometimes that might be a good thing, however most of the times this deviation from the main course of action does more harm than good. 

By the time the year ends and we look at what we have accomplished, just when we are excited to tick off the things from the “to-do” list, we end up ticking only a few. The disorganization in our heads, the lack of focus in one particular thing, the scarce faith within ourselves to be able to achieve what we have aimed for, leads to this incomplete list.

Thus the most important thing to do (can say this from my own experience) is to strongly stick with what you have decided. You should always say this to yourself – “Come what may, I will not let my 100% focus reduce, not even to 95%.” Having to keep up with the same enthusiasm till the end of the year, as you had at the beginning of the year is very difficult. However if you can keep it ,not only will you be able to tick of all the “to-do” items, but will be immensely satisfied to have kept your own promises, that for one full year you have stayed loyal to your commitments, that you have given priority to your promises than getting lured by choices which were good enough to distract you from your ultimate purpose.

This is my goal for the year and would love to know from you all how you feel about each passing year.

With love

Sunday, 27 April 2014

X for Xmas!!

With really few words to choose from, I decided to write about Christmas or Xmas in short. 
Neither am I a Christian nor do I live in a country where it is celebrated as much, yet I have found memories of this day. 

These memories are a result of my education in a christian school. Every year there would be a concert, a drama would be staged based on the story of Jesus Christ's birth. There would be songs sung to welcome the holidays, someone would get dressed as Santa and go around distributing candies and everyone would greet each other 'Merry Christmas' and Happy Holidays.

When I was a kid, Christmas eves went by decorating the Christmas tree and hanging up a sock with a letter to Santa inside it. The day of Christmas was even more exciting with presents from my mother and then a full day of watching television. Being from a christian school, I would offer my pray to Christ-My Lord and sing hymns and thank him for all that He has blessed me with.

Now when I watch movies and shows, which portray this day as a huge holiday, I wish I could experience it once and feel the excitement with everyone else who are pumped up about the day. 

With Love

Saturday, 26 April 2014

W for Worth!!

Worth is such an important term in everyone's life. To value people as per their worth is really essential.
There are various ways in which people often feel neglected or worthless. This is the core problem which needs to be solved.

When two people are in a relationship, there are times when they forget to acknowledge the worth of the other person. Though this might not seem like much of a problem but repeated act of negligence might ruin the relationship. There is no specific way in which a person can feel worthless, but take this as an example-
    The girl messages the guy and waits for his reply, while she is on a tour in a different country. She sees the 'last seen' time and it shows a time that is after the message sent time. This might not seem like a big deal for the guy, but the girl sure feels neglected.

Another example of failure to show worth is this-
  A working lady comes home after a very stressful day in office and has to cook dinner for the family. The food doesn't taste as good and her family members instead of asking her about her day in office and diverting the attention from the food, criticize her and make her feel guilty about the food cooked.

These are examples to illustrate the fact that it is of utmost importance to make a person feel worthy. Life is filled with so much stress and complication, work and peer pressure, among all this the only thing that a person wishes for is to be loved by their dear ones and be felt worthy enough.

This was something that I feel needs attention. Do let me know what are your views in this regard.

With love

Friday, 25 April 2014

V for Variety!!

Variety! This is something that I seem to have mastered in my life! No kidding, my life is filled with an awful number of things that appeal to me.

Dance ranks the highest among the things that add variety to my life. I am a dance lover, a dance freak. Having been trained for over 10 years, this only seems too obvious. Dance makes me happy, it creates a special bubble of happiness that can be experienced wile training. All the hours of dancing, all the hours of hard work, they all seem nothing but sheer enjoyment to me. Never had I felt that I am tired of dancing, or felt that when would this training session end, that would almost be blasphemy! Rambling about Dance is quite my favorite topic, so I would now get on with the next variety in my life.

Books!! Though this has been a new found addiction, it seems to be overpowering my life more than I had imagined or anticipated. I am going through a strange phase , where I am feeling empty if I am not reading a book.

Next up is writing. Though I am not a decent writer as of now. But things are looking quite high on anticipation. Writing hasn’t been the most “wanted” thing in my list of things to do, but I have always had the wish to write.

Ok the next thing might sound absurd but I will mention it anyway! Talking!! O my God! The amount I speak isn’t even funny. My mother gets so irritated at times with my constant chattering, that she literally has to ask me to stop!

So, these are the few of my varieties in life. Everyone  has variety in life, and I would love to know from you guys what are your varieties!

With love

Thursday, 24 April 2014

U for Urge!!

The basic meaning of urge is to induce, to persuade! To have the urge to do something is essential in everyone’s life!

Like some of my previous posts on A for Accomplishment and T for Try, this post also follows the same line of thoughts. What I am trying to say is, to accomplish anything we must have the urge in the first place. It isn’t something that anyone can instill within us but for us to find it in ourselves.

To achieve greater things, we must find out why we want to achieve them, we must figure out what makes it so special that we want to have it for ourselves. Because if we find that out, we will then gather the Urge to move ahead in this path, will find the urge to eliminate any obstacles and emerge as a success.

When someone says-‘I am going to start a business!’ He is essentially saying it out of the urge to work for something of his own.  When your boss gives you orders, don’t take it as another work load, but think of it as an opportunity to show your capabilities. This is the urge that is being talked about.

Dig deep inside yourself and find out that urge in everything that you do in your life. For, doing something that you don’t care about is equal to wasting your valuable time.

With love

Tuesday, 22 April 2014

T for Try!!

Have you ever faced a situation where you tell yourself- 'No, I can't do this' or 'This is beyond my capabilities.' ? These are the traps in life which if you view in  a negative prospect, can bring you down or if you look at it with a positive eye, will bring out your true potential!

The situations that you face are indeed difficult and daring, but to overcome these, you don't require rocket science! All you need is to Try! The willingness to try and move forward, the power within to go ahead and face the fear, the force inside you that says - 'Yes, can have it in you to do it!' , is there in you, all you need to do is wake them up. You have to listen to the sound of the 'Brave You' speaking. The voice might not be dominant at first, and that is exactly what you are required to do. You are required to give the faint sound within you, a greater power to capture your mind, to envelope your thoughts with the assurance that you can overcome the obstacle.

Though these are easier said than done, if it is implemented, it will do you more good than bad. The idea is to Try and push yourself, to bring yourself to the edge and to abandon all the fears. Once you are able to do this, there will be nothing that can scare you, that can shake your belief in yourself.
And thus the most important thing to do is to try and believe in yourself, rather than listening to others who wish to bring you down, who stand as a barrier between you and your success.
Life Will Always Try To Make Things Difficult For You 
But Every Time You Overcome Difficulties You Come Out Stronger.
Hope you guys liked this thought, for it is crucial to let go of your fears and try to overcome the obstacles.

With love

Monday, 21 April 2014

S for Silver!!

More often than not, I come across people who prefer gold over silver. And being from a country where household women hold 11% of the world’s gold reserve, I can hardly deny the fact the gold attracts them far more than silver.
However, I, for one, love silver like nothing else. Silver ornaments are so much more appealing to me, that I can easily ignore a sack full of gold jewels and by happy to have whatever little silver ornaments I have.

The small earrings and pendants are the ones that attract my attention more than big chunky neck pieces. The detailed design in that tiny framework catches my interest and thus, every time I purchase something it is inevitably the small ones.

Silver items like rings and bracelets are also some of my favorite picks. Silver bracelets make a good accessory, when you want to keep it simple yet elegant.  As for rings, however much I say is not enough! They are my soul-mate! I have a huge fascination for these and absolutely love collecting them!

Silver has beauty of its own, the color of it is more appreciable when the ornament's design is inclusive of sparkling stones.

I would love to know from you all whether you all like silver accessories and if so, which one is your absolute favorite!

With love

Sunday, 20 April 2014

R for Role!!

A person in her lifetime has to play a variety of roles. She needs to fit into the ever changing characters in order to smoothly sail through that time phase. Also there are certain roles that she plays ever since her birth.

She is a Daughter. She is born with this role and continues to play it no matter what. In this period of her life, she also gets a new tag- that of a Sister. She becomes the responsible mother like figure for another human being. Her love and affection for this person never reduces and she feels protective about him/her.

During the ages of growing up, she also lets in a very strong role sip into her system. She becomes a Friend. Though as a child she does not understand much of this role and feels like being a friend is fun, for she can play with him/her and laugh till their stomach hurts. But as she grows up and is attacked by the sudden pressure of adulthood, being someone’s friend and having one herself, helps her in tackling the problems that are thrown at her constantly. When her friend faces trouble, she is always there to help her and advice her and support her.

After this stage, she is then invited by the role of a Wife. Being able to juggle work and family is quite difficult, but when she is gifted with the most important role of all, which is of being a Mother, she gets an enthusiastic zeal within her to cope with all the pressure in life-work, child, family!!

These are only a few of the roles that she plays, there are many more and as life proceeds the list of roles keep rolling.

I would love to know which role you are playing at the moment and which role has been the best for you so far.

With love

Saturday, 19 April 2014

Q for Quotes!!

Its been quite sometime that I have liked the idea of using quotes to motivate myself. Its a natural thing that I have developed to give myself the push that is often needed to achieve greater things. I have felt as if reading the quotes itself gives me some kind of energy, some kind of power from within to go ahead and accomplish what I want.

Quotes have helped in times of stress and despair. When everything looks dark and the road of possibility is narrow, quotes have given me strength to hang on and not lose faith. With every quote, if you attach some personal memory and the quote will then make more sense and the words will sound more meaningful.

Quotes by authors and motivational speakers are what I swear by. And indeed they are a great source to help you in your self improvement. I will post some of the quotes down below.

With love

Friday, 18 April 2014

P for Post!!

This is something that popped up in my head while I was brain storming for a topic on P.
This challenge is making me go crazy at times,  searching for a new idea and writing about it is for sure not an easy task. And to add to this, is the pressure of posting within a time limit. Coming back from office and having to search for a topic is insane.

But once the post is complete and its published, the happiness is pretty amazing . And what makes it even more special is when people read the post and comment on it, appreciate it. And I know its the case for everyone out there who is participating in this challenge.

There are people who are really into this challenge and are writing some stories. I am in awe of those who are so creative and have such writing capabilities. This challenge has indeed created a writing habit in me and I am thankful for that.
 I wish each and every member of this challenge all the very best for the last few days left in the completion of this challenge.

I would love to know how you guys are doing so far in the challenge.

With love

Thursday, 17 April 2014

O for Old Age!!

Not trying to make this sound terribly serious, but this is a topic that everyone should care about.
Old Age brings with itself a lot of challenges. To have the courage, to live life the way you feel, to be able to stand up for yourself is of utmost importance at this stage of life.

There are so many people out there who are forced to live in old age homes. The reason for that may vary, but bottom line to every story is, they were turning into 'burden'. It is such a low thought on the part of the child who thinks that way about his/her parent. The person who gave birth to you, raised you, struggled all their life to keep you happy, and did so much more than it can be expressed, the moment they become unable to work, to help you in your daily life, you think of them as a 'burden' ?! Such a shame!

Not only old age home, but there are old people who live own their own and have to go out and do the grocery or pay the bills or some other household work, because they are alone and have no one to help them.

When a child grows up with a Grand mother, she is the one who takes care of the child the most! And what happens when this child grows up? She becomes an adult and talks back to this very same person who loved her so much! She leaves no chance to strike an insult or two, picking up various topics. All of this becomes to much for the grand mother to take in. But she has no other option but to keep quite and sob in the dark. No one to care for her tears, no one to ask her the reason, no one to tell her that she is not alone, no one to make her smile.

I am not sure how you guys feel regarding this topic, but do let me know.

With love

Wednesday, 16 April 2014

N for Nail Paint!!

Ok!! I am obsessed about nail paints!! I am not kidding. The amount of nail paints I buy isn't even funny!! I went through a phase when I literally bought like 2 nail paints per month.

Putting on a nail paint is fun, it makes me feel happy and its the best time pass for me!! Now this nail paint I put, stays on for a maximum of 3 to 4 days, after which I get bored with the color and remove it. And then I am always in a situation where I feel like I have no nail paints and eventually go shopping for a new color.

Its needless to say, I am a fail when it comes to nail paints. Its as if the colors call me and plead to be purchased!! I have had moments while travelling, when I see a color on someone's nails and I tell myself - I NEED THIS COLOR!!

I have just purchased two colors, whose picture I am posting down below.
If you guys have any such obsession about anything, do let me know.

With love

Tuesday, 15 April 2014

M for Mother!!

Ma, Mom, Mother, Ammi, Aayi, or by whathever name you address the person who gave you life,who gave you your identity, is in fact the support system of your life. Mother is the person who stands by you in all your endeavor, she is the one who understands you no matter what, she is the person who blesses you without any expectation,she is the one who forgives you no matter what, she believes in you and knows you are capable of greater things.

People often taken this important person in their lives too causally. Though she doesn't demand anything from you, but it is in turn you responsibility to acknowledge her love towards you. The tension she faces when you stay out late, when you don't answer your phone calls, the pain she feels when you get hurt, the joy she shares with you in your success, is what Mother is all about. To ignore all of this is not just morally wrong, but extremely selfish.

To even begin describing my MA is impossible for me. She has been such an inspiration and support. Whatever values I have learnt, is because of her. Not only does she instill top class qualities in me, but she wants to me be what she couldn't be!  My mother is also my best friend, yes I do tell her everything. There are people who react strangely on hearing I share everything with her. But I do!!
Strangely enough the bond she shares with my grand-mom, I share the exact same with my MA. We have the very same equation!!

I don't think I can put down in words what Ma is in my life, but I would definitely love to hear from you all how your relation is with your mother.

With love

Monday, 14 April 2014

L for Long Distance!!

 Often “L” referred to Love . But I am taking it a notch further than love. It is what comes next. Relationship!!  The relationship that tags itself along with the beautiful emotion, is at times as sweet as honey and  at times as disturbing as a storm.
There is one type of relationship that is a little on the difficult side,but if pursued with utmost faith, can break through all the barriers and become something wonderful. Its the Long Distance Relationship. 

Long distance has its own share of trouble but at the same time, if you want to be with the person, the distance can be tolerated! With long distance, communication and getting to meet you partner is difficult. However, thanks to our new and advanced technology, Skype acts as a life saver. 

To love someone and to develop a relationship with that person, means you are plunging into something that is way more complicated than what the movies show you. Its not like you can fly off to meet him/her by taking the next flight that is scheduled. Nor can you change the natural phenomenon of different time in different country. But if you want to be with him/her, if you are willing to give in your best, if you are willing to keep aside you insecurities and trust him/her hundred percent, then there is nothing stopping you from going ahead with a long distance relationship.
This quote states such a true fact.

Thus to be in a relationship with the person you love is what matters most, the distance is secondary. And if you have to strength in your love, you will beat the distance demon with the faith you have in the relationship.

With love

Saturday, 12 April 2014

K for K-Drama!!

I was at one of my friend's house, when she suggested that we should watch some movies. After failing miserably at finding a decent movie, she told me if I would like to watch a korean serial. I gave her a weird look, thinking if she really was serious. She certainly was! So I didn't have much choice left. I pointed it out to her that I wouldn't understand a word, to which she said - the serial has english subtitles.

The serial that we watched was MY GIRL. It wasn't very difficult to follow and surprisingly enough I got hooked onto the show within 15 minutes. Each episode is of like an hour, so after watching one episode with her, I came home and looked it up online. To my utter astonishment, this show had all its episodes uploaded on Youtube. I sure behaved like a lunatic for the next week or so, for I hardly parted with my computer until I was done with the series.

And since then I have been a hopeless korean drama addict!! I love how each serial deals with girls falling for rich famous guys, who at first do not pay any attention and almost hate the girl, only to fall in love with her eventually.The dramas also have a lot of pain involved, the pain of not being able to be with their loved ones. There is invariably one guy in the show that has his heart broken. These shows have amazing music, the actors look - Oh so Good and the fashion is pretty awesome!!

Having watched quite a few drama like - Dream High, Playful Kiss, My Girl, Goong,You've Fallen For Me etc. My favourite K-Drama till date is - Playful Kiss!!

I know there are a whole bunch of people who love K-Drama as much as I do. And for those who haven't yet experienced this amazing thing, go watch it and fall in love.


With love

Friday, 11 April 2014

J for Juggling!!

Jugglers, as we have all heard of are people who juggle or balance things with their hands and leave the spectators in awe. They show such tricks that are often unimaginable.

But now in this age, we come across jugglers who juggle things which are associated with feelings. They juggle emotions of people. Or lets just say they juggle human beings. These guys have learnt such amazing talent, so as to keep dating one girl while starting a new relationship with another. And its surprising how good these people are at hiding their dirty little secrets.

If you have watched the movie Valentine's Day , you will be reminded of a portion of the movie that deals with the very same issue. So I would like to tell you all, its not only in the movies, it happens in real life.

To these guys, girls have become a piece of toy, without any emotions. They fail to realize what the girl might go through after she learns that the person she loves so dearly has not only lied to her but has also kept a relationship going with another girl. It is an unbearable truth and leaves the girl devastated.

Guys should understand that girls are also human beings with feelings and to use them in this way is just not acceptable.

P.S.- This relates to only a few men out there. So readers please don't take it otherwise.

With love

Thursday, 10 April 2014

I for Internet!!

Need I say anything further or you guys are already having amazing thoughts relating to internet, floating inside your brains. Now internet is by far one of the greatest creation of human, if not the best! Why do I think this way?!Because would I be able to write and publish posts on my blog, and would you be able to read it , if not for internet?

I don't want to sound like a stereotype commerce book, describing the detailed advantages of internet. However, there are various things that have happened in our lives only after the invention of internet.
For book lovers who love paperbacks , would it be possible to buy so many books sitting at home and at such a cheap rate? Would people be able to book their flights at such ease? Would people be able to communicate at this frequency, if it wasn't for internet?!
And why only purchases, in this modern world people find their partners online, they chat over social networking sites , like each other and things flow from there.

These are hardly a few examples of the blessing that Internet has bestowed upon us. Thus utility of internet is diversified and widespread. And to measure it would be an insult to It's utmost worthiness.

With love

Wednesday, 9 April 2014

H for Hope and Hard work!!

Hope, isn't this something that is common for all of us?! We hope we can lead a good life, we hope we can earn a lot of money, we hope we can have our own happily ever after, just like we read in books or watch in movies, we all hope for something or the other.

But really is Hope that powerful to convert whatever we wish for into a successful outcome?! No it isn't. Though Hope is like a program pre-instilled in human beings, we have to install something called Hard work within that system, in order it give hope a desirable shape that can be appreciated.

No big success is achieved by opting for the path of shortcut, but it is achieved by putting in hours and hours of effort into doing the same thing in order to achieve something extraordinary.
A mere hope of attaining the top post in your company isn't going to miraculously promote you. But utmost Hard work, labour, late office hours, immense brain storming to complete each task at hand, will make you what you want to be.

A person who achieves something throughout shortcut doesn't know the real meaning of success, for Success and Hard work goes hand in hand.

With love