The complex species - "MEN or WOMEN"

Is it me, or have other people also faced this kind of a situation?

Have you ever had a feeling that you like a guy and even got a vague idea that he might also be interested, only to figure out that he is busy setting up his game with another girl?

I just had!

With all the smart talks, flirting and quick glances don’t let the guys fool you my friends, because just as you start falling for him things will take a reverse turn. First you will have continuous conversation for long hours, texting all day long and sharing every random details of your daily life. And all of a sudden (after a while) you will see he has disappeared, with no text or phone call.

First they will get you into the habit of having them in your life , “Good morning” text , “Good night” text , how was your day , how was you breakfast,lunch, dinner, basically he becomes your freaking personal diary .

And slowly that starts fading away. After getting you totally attached to him he will vanish , because he is “busy” with his work.

Dude! Were you jobless when you started talking in the first place? Suddenly your “work” seems to be extremely important. But then you do have ample free time to go and like some other girls picture on social networking site.

Whom are you fooling , really?

And that is the story most girls have to face .

So all I can conclude is by saying that judging the male species hasn’t been quite the easy deal.  They say women are difficult to understand, I say ‘men are difficult to understand’.

Expect the Unexpected

H

ow often we fall prey to this quote“expect the unexpected” . And probably this is the best way to describe my past few days.

Never did I imagine that, what I thought would be boring and unfruitful  ,would turn out to be such an amazing experience . This is the experience I had in my orientation training , which took place over a span of seven days.  From searching the centre, to awkwardly talking to the neighbouring person, to making an utter fool of ourself during the introduction was  what the first day comprised of.

During tea breaks , the room would turn into a fish market with everyone talking at the top of their voice.

And during lunch , we would sit together and talk about anything and everything under the sun. In which,  commenting on the food given to us would top the list followed by the extremely uncomfortable chairs we had to sit on and the list would go on.

By the time the last day came , we all had realized that this was the last time we are seeing each other until the next training program or tuition class. But that was proven wrong when all of us met on Christmas eve . The evening was filled with laughter and enjoyment , madness and foolishness .  

We all parted ways only to meet up soon and have another fun night out . Till then we would keep our insanity with us .

Hope you enjoyed reading this , Happy Holidays everyone . Merry Christmas and a Happy new year.

Inspiration

Dance has always been a passion , a place of happiness , a place where I can escape from everything that is happening around me and feel the soul being free from all restraints. 

Though I couldn't take up dance as a profession, my love for dance has not faded one bit.Even now when a song plays, I move with the flow of music and feel the joy of being able to do all that I want to, with no one stopping me. 

The best part about dance is that you get to do your own thing, create your own step, your own posture, your very own choreography . Through dance you can depict happiness, sadness, anger, frustration, freedom, love and so much more , all at the same time , through one single piece. 

Dance makes me feel alive , makes me feel like I am a part of something bigger, helps me take that leap of faith and gives me the courage to show the world my talent. When I perform on stage, the lights, the audience nothing seems to matter that much. At that time , in front of me is a huge space which I own for the next few minutes and where I can live my life . 

I wish sometime in the near future , I will be able to perform on the dream platform and hope to keep the love for dancing alive within me. 

Baffled Soul

Have you ever come across a point in your life when you have no idea what to do , where to go , what decision to take next or feel like you can't breathe with so much going on ? I have.

Can't precisely describe the problem but all I know is, it is a cluster of emotions leading to a havoc inside my head.
The point in life when you have to decide what you will do next , what career you will pick is an extremely difficult decision to make. To figure out which is "the" suitable path to choose , what you want to do for the rest of your life is a decision that one has to make with a lot of judgement. 

I don't know if I am alone here, or there are others facing this kind of a situation. I know this is not an easy decision to make and even though this feels like a crisis situation , I am sure this phase in my life will pass quickly. And in the end I will be able to make the right choice. :)

Prince Charming On His White Horse

Every girl has a dream to fall in love with the perfect man , who will love her unconditionally. Sometimes they wait for a very long time for that to happen. And sometimes they just plunge into a relationship without giving it much thought , only to realize that he wasn’t “the one “.

I belong to the former category . I have this strange idea about “love” , that I will be approached by my prince charming and that it is worth waiting for. Though it is a little too much to ask for , considering the current situation of ugly break ups and nasty fights happening everywhere . Not one single person in my friend circle has had a “stable relationship” .  All I hear them say is –“ Its too much. I need space. I need my time .. “ and the list goes on… I don’t understand ,what do they see in the guy in the first place that they droll over him, and then within 2 months time they have had enough of “the charm” ! 

The new concept

Growing up reading fairy tales and happy endings , this situation makes me question whether the concept o f true love has extinguished all together?! Everyone seems to enjoy being together but as soon as commitments crawl in , things start to fall apart.  

With all this going on, I find my chances of finding my Prince Charming pretty sleek. Still I will take my chances and wait for him !! :)

Building Courage

Completely justifying the title of this post, my attempt to create a blog and write about what I feel, what I think, what I do, etc has been my first step towards BELIEVING  in myself.
  I am that sort of a person who doubts herself at every possible opportunity that she gets. This off course has held me back in doing a lot of things that I had wished to do, thus becoming the single most obstacle in my life.
  Being a recent college pass out , I have realized that if I don't overcome this barrier I will not be able to go ahead in life. Is it even possible to venture into something , without believing in yourself? Let alone achieving it.
  See its not like I fail in everything that I lay my hands on. To be completely honest , its quite the contrary. I end up completing what i started and even gain decent amount of praise from others.
The Question "why I don't believe in myself" has given me quite a bit of restlessness . And thus I figured it is only a delusion . Its just that I am afraid to take risks, I am afraid to try something new in the fear that I might not succeed. The fear of failure was the sole reason for all the unnecessary self-doubting . 

   So now that I have build up some amount of self confidence , I'm hoping that I will keep alive the faith in myself, in my capabilities and will move forward in life with hope!

Being a First time writer , I apologize for the mistakes and errors .I hope you guys will like the post and show your support so that I can continue to improve myself . Lots of love. Have A Great Day ! :)