T for Tuning

You know that moment when someone is so sweet and nice to you, and loves you so much. But all you can do is be mean to him. You are unfortunately not able to reciprocate the feelings in the exact same manner. He can be a gem of a person, a great friend, an amazing partner but you are just unable to feel that way for him.

Then starts the dilemma of “what to do?” You don’t want to break his heart, you don’t want to hurt the guy who loves you so very much. But what other options do you have? Thus you end up being a stone hearted, cold, mean person.

This problem happens mainly because of lack of tuning between you two. You both need to be mentally on the same page to be in a steady relationship. You both need to have the same wants and understanding of life. It’s not like he is the only one in the relationship who needs to understand you, get you, but you also need to understand him. One-way traffic of feelings never lead to anything good. It will only leads to heartbreak for the guy, whose only fault is to fall in love with you.

So be brave in the beginning than fake it and give false hope to the poor lad.

With Love,

V_RinkiD_V

F for Forgiveness

Just words and talk, is not what this is,

Forgiveness is a deed, mightier than we believe.

Forgive and forget- something heard often,

Indeed it is helpful, frees you from the burden.

All those incidents and the ugly fights,

Caused you only trouble in its light.

It took a place in your heart,

Highlighting only the negative part.

Passing days make things worse,

Blinding you of your senses and making you curse.

The annoyance and irritation builds up,

Ruins the relationship, widens the distance you have.

There still remains a part of you,

Wishing for things to be normal between you two.

You feel pained, sadden by the turn of events,

Desperately wanting to end the fight, make amends.

It is this desperation that needs to be heard,

Willing to give the relationship another chance.

Forgiving the other, ending the blame game,

Sorting things out, redefining the relationship’s name.

In forgiveness lies the satisfaction,

Transforms you into a better person, by making those corrections.

Let not the rigidity be a hindrance, a barrier,

If something is good, forgive and be happier.

In prayers we seek the forgiveness,

Forgive those who trespass against us.

Fights happen, relationships get sour,

But think about the good that is at stake, thus Forgive, it is in your Power.

With Love,

V_RinkiD_V

L for Long Distance!!

 Often “L” referred to Love . But I am taking it a notch further than love. It is what comes next. Relationship!!  The relationship that tags itself along with the beautiful emotion, is at times as sweet as honey and  at times as disturbing as a storm.

There is one type of relationship that is a little on the difficult side,but if pursued with utmost faith, can break through all the barriers and become something wonderful. Its the Long Distance Relationship. 

Long distance has its own share of trouble but at the same time, if you want to be with the person, the distance can be tolerated! With long distance, communication and getting to meet you partner is difficult. However, thanks to our new and advanced technology, Skype acts as a life saver. 

To love someone and to develop a relationship with that person, means you are plunging into something that is way more complicated than what the movies show you. Its not like you can fly off to meet him/her by taking the next flight that is scheduled. Nor can you change the natural phenomenon of different time in different country. But if you want to be with him/her, if you are willing to give in your best, if you are willing to keep aside you insecurities and trust him/her hundred percent, then there is nothing stopping you from going ahead with a long distance relationship.

This quote states such a true fact.

Thus to be in a relationship with the person you love is what matters most, the distance is secondary. And if you have to strength in your love, you will beat the distance demon with the faith you have in the relationship.

With love
V_RinkiD_V

Time Passes, Memories Remain.

While everyone appreciated the concept of book related blog posting, a certain friend expressed his utmost hatred towards this idea. According to him, I should continue posting on more generalized topics.
So I've decided on posting book related topics once every week, while dedicating my other posts to ideas that randomly pop up in my head.

To get it started with, today's post relates to Memories.

For men may come and men may go, 

          But I go on for ever.
                                          - THE BROOK By Alfred Lord Tennyson

I can related to the words of the great poet, the meaning seems so very true at this point in life.
"Men may come and men may go" -  you will meet new people, give them a space in your life, share Memories with them but for how long?? We trust people and we share our lives with them, only to realize that it wasn't meant forever. Forever is a strong word .
"I go on for ever" - Time doesn't wait for anyone, it moves ahead leaving you with all the remembrance from the past.

In the past few years, I have had the pleasure of meeting some amazing people and opening the doors of friendship for them. The time spent together were filled with joy, laughter and promises. Only that Promise is a heavy word. It is a huge responsibility, which if not kept can turn the lovely friendship into a sour relationship.
When we are together, we think life will be this way forever and we enjoy the moments we have together, but do we think of future ? Do we consider the fact that in a few years time, we might live in different places and have rare and seldom talks? No, we don't. Some may call this the beauty of the moment, but i think this is the game that Time plays with us. It tricks us into believing that the happiness and joy we are experiencing will last a lifetime. Certainly it does, but most of the times only in our memories.
The heartbreaks that people face, when someone they truly loved turns their back without giving a proper explanation, leaves them shattered and broken. They think it was their fault for which their loved one left them.
But it is not so, the person who left you behind without giving a proper cause, is nothing but a coward!! And however this will sound like a cliche - "you are well off without that person".
Time might have played the tricks according to Its will, but you can rise above and defeat It by changing your life, by making better choices , by keeping distance from people who only stick around to take advantage of you. Time only has the upper hand in one respect- It moves on and doesn't stop for anyone or anything. We on the other hand lag behind when things don't work out . But to keep moving on with Time will only keep us from breaking down for people who don't deserve it.

This is dedicated to a friend, who is the nicest person I have ever known. She can never be mean to others, however she is tricked by Time always.

I know this wasn't much of a fun related topic, but I had to put it out there for all the wonderful people who fall into traps of evil and are left heartbroken.
I hope you liked this read, for I genuinely wish you all live a happy life, smiling all the time.

With love,
V_RinkiD_V